Male Logic.... help?

So... this one goes out to the guys.

I don't usually have [such a hard time] understanding guys and how their minds work but.... I'm lost right now.
I've been experiencing new things lately, being single and all and having to 'fend for myself' because I'm not around my friends or in my comfort zone... I've noticed that guys tend to follow certain patterns and I can't understand why.

I heard from a friend of mine that he 'was being taught rules about women' from some older man who gave him the impression that he would have to follow them if he ever wanted to understand women or have adoring him.
They were pretty straightforward and, for the most part, I could agree...

But what I'm getting at is the fact that there are men who teach 'rules' to their proteges that aren't as 'agreeable' - many of them border on degrading.

Rules mentioning derogatory things about women or dismissive and domineering things that men should do to keep 'their woman in line'... it's infuriating to think about, much less be a victim of.

What I'm getting at with this and the question I'm posing to all guys is:
*Why do girls have to try so hard to get to the 'real you', or rather, Why do you feel you have to put on an act instead of just saying what you mean?

~ Some guys will play it cool and not call you for a week, then call you one day and act sweetly towards you, leading you to think they really missed you, only to leave you hanging for another week - or longer.

~ Some guys will only talk to you when they can get you alone and will completely ignore you when they're around their friends...


~ Some guys will play up to you and pursue you then play 'hard to get' and pretend to ignore you if they think they're getting too close and starting to seem like they want it too much.

And the examples go on but I don't need to list them - you're already thinking of your own.
If you have the solution, or even if you don't.... just leave a note. I, personally, am stumped.

So... twitter...

Ok, so... I joined Twitter the other day... and so far... it's pretty decent. But I'm not over my rant about it's uselessness...
I mean, it's a great way to stay in touch from minute to minute and it's definitely faster than Facebook but other than that... there's not much to it.

Twitter wars are a plus though... random bursts of spam messages. That's always fun... it's like a delayed MSN messenger... sorta.
I love the fact that you can 'follow' famous people you admire though 'downside: you can't control who follows you]... even though it doesn't do much for you. Reading their posts can give you insight into their lives but it's not always something you're going to love. I've been disappointed a few times already since I started following an author I adore.
Sometimes it's better to wonder what they're really like than it is to know and be disillusioned as to their 'awesomeness'.


That is all.... just the random thoughts of a sick teenager... =|

Slave To Her Passion

Caught up in a fit of passion,
He caught her up and held her bare
Heart thrashing against itself
Contained by a loose thread, her sanity.


No thoughts of wrong or right,
Only the desire to satisfy
The longing that calls longer still
When passion sends self to die.


He'd leave her there to ponder
Where her soul had gone, who she'd been,
Then he'd return before she could renounce
The fit of passion rising again.




What can I say....? I'm a Slave to my Passion <3